Domestic Violence: What is a Dating Relationship?

Several months into the COVID-19 pandemic, the daily lives of most people have changed in many ways. With many people still desiring to find companionship, dating websites and mobile applications have provided somewhat of a substitute for traditional in-person dates, which are no longer feasible during the pandemic.

What happens if the relationship you’ve developed in these virtual settings goes awry, and the continued virtual contact becomes unwanted, threatening, malicious, and/or harassing? Can you obtain a restraining order to prevent further contact?

The answer largely depends on whether your online relationship with this person is considered to be within the definition of a “dating relationship” under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act.

The New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence only provides protection for certain classes of relationships, defined as a spouse, former spouse, household member (whether presently or at any prior time), parties with a child in common, or parties with whom the victim has had a dating relationship.

Fortunately, recent case law has shown an evolution of the term “dating relationship” under the statute to account for the evolution of dating itself.

The case of C.C. v. J.A.H., decided by the New Jersey Appellate Division on June 11, 2020, took into consideration two individuals who had never experienced a traditional, in-person “date.” They never visited each other’s homes, or met each other’s friends or family members. They never engaged in sexual relations, kissed, or even held hands. What they did do, however, was exchange nearly 1,300 highly personal and intimate text messages over the course of several months. Eventually, when one of the parties tried to cease the contact and spurn any further relationship, the other party’s communications became threatening and malicious.

In this first case of its kind, the court held that these two individuals, who shared no other meaningful contact aside from these text messages, were in enough of a “dating relationship” to provide protection to the victim.

This case may have broadened the protections available to victims of domestic violence tremendously. If you are being threatened, harassed or otherwise are subjected to domestic violence, you may be able to obtain a Final Restraining Order to protect yourself.


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California Employers Face New Notice Requirement for Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, and Stalking Time Off

The California Division of Labor Standards Enforcement (DLSE) has published a new form that must be added to the growing list of documents that employers are required to provide to employees at the time of hire.

The new form refers to employees’ rights under California Labor Code Section 230.1 relating to protections of employees who are victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, and/or stalking. Last October, we notified California employers about this new law amending Section 230.1, Assembly Bill (AB) 2337. The amended law requires employers with 25 or more employees to provide an employee with written notice of his or her rights to take time off for the following purposes:

  1. “To seek medical attention for injuries caused by domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking.
  2. To obtain services from a domestic violence shelter, program, or rape crisis center as a result of domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking.
  3. To obtain psychological counseling related to an experience of domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking.
  4. To participate in safety planning and take other actions to increase safety from future domestic violence, sexual assault, or stalking, including temporary or permanent relocation.”

The law requires employers to provide the notice “to new employees upon hire and to other employees upon request.”

As we reported previously, employers were not required to distribute this information until the California Labor Commissioner published a form employers could use to comply with the law. The law gave the Labor Commissioner until “on or before July 1, 2017” to develop and post the form.

As required by AB 2337, the Labor Commissioner’s office recently released the notice. The DLSE has made both an English and Spanish version of the notice available on its website. The notice also contains information on employees’ rights to reasonable accommodation and to be free from retaliation and discrimination.

Finally, the new law clarifies that employers that do not use the Labor Commissioner’s notice may use an alternative that is “substantially similar in content and clarity to the form developed by the Labor Commissioner.”

This post was written by Christopher W. Olmsted and Hera S. Arsen of Ogletree, Deakins, Nash, Smoak & Stewart, P.C.
Read more legal analysis on the National Law Review.